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The narrator in the essays is fictional. Any resemblance to the author is caused by lack of creativity.

Stuck?

What is stuck?

We all know, yet the answer is illusive. It can be an unfinished item on a ToDo list, a postponed decision for no apparent reason, an inappropriate reaction to a momentary thought, or the abrupt interruption of feelings of incompetence, unworthiness or foolishness. It often is far worse.

Move!

Stuck? Move!

What is Move!? It is innate skill. It is how: Experience modifies beliefs created by old experience. It quiets distress, elaborates our values and develops valuable intuitions about ourselves and the world around.

It happens continuously without effort or conscious thought. We can improve our skills and give conscious direction to our motion.

"But I Can't"

Stuck? Move! “But I Can’t”

When we can’t, we are stuck in an unchanging experience. Because it never changes, it proves a narrow truth. We experience these narrow truths as limiting beliefs. How do I set unchanging experiences in motion and dispel limiting beliefs? Move!

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Why do some memories torment us?
Why do they persist?
Can personal growth transform them?

Furies! deepens our intuitions about person growth. We will feel strengthening courage and a clearer understanding of our core values.

Personal growth creates who we are - the self we might be proud of, have respect for and feel uplifted by. As we confront our own Furies, we deepen our relationship with the self we have grown to be.

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Tuesday
Jun292010

A Moment Of Personal Experience

To begin, I would like you, the reader, to look around. Notice what you notice. Sunlight on the wall perhaps? The comfort of your chair? Ambient noise? Spend a moment with each object then look around again. Spend another moment then look again.

These impressions were moments of simple experience. What I write should be as relevant in quiet moments of simple reflection and furious moments of personal torment.

Now imagine looking over a sandy beach. Each time you notice an object, you grab a hand of proverbial sand. Each moment is a different handful of sand.

There is an infinite amount of sand on any sandy beach we might imagine. You perceive by the handful even if you can imagine infinity. There is an infinite number of possible impressions on your senses, yet only a handful have significance at any moment.

When we perceive something, we do not sense it first. Rather, we assign meaning to one of an infinite number of possible sensations. When we grab a handful, we assign meaning. We find an understanding, we comprehend, we apprehend. We tell a story of its significance. A very important question: How do we find the best meaning?

Why start with this thought exercise? To show it is a fallacy to suggest that experience starts with data. We are beset by an infinity of sensory data. Data are inert.

If we want to understand the data fallacy, then we ask, What gives data meaning?

If you have a strong belief in spirit, soul or some animating force, you believe your ghost within assigns meaning. The handful of sand we grab is a handful of sand we chose to grab. But the choice was already made, and our only purpose is to understand it, or so the ghost story goes.

The maker of this choice is the subject of most religion. The maker of this choice understands the essences of things and animals and peoples. Our ghost understands other ghosts.

These understandings are intuitive, innate, part of our nature, and found at the very root of our DNA. If our ghosts arise from our internal biology, what gives data meaning?

Think of an apple falling. Watch it fall. Don’t think of gravity... Or Newton... Or gravity... Thing only of the falling apple. Watch it rotate. Notice the autumn colors blur as you track its acceleration. When it hits the ground, what sound does it make? Does it thud or splat?

Newton’s law of universal gravitation details a context to understand the apple’s fall specifically and nature comprehensively. But if we focus on the apple’s fall, we see gravity as a ghostly force which we project into this moment to explain it.

Beach fantasies show it’s a fallacy to suggest our process of thought starts with data. A falling apple shows it is a fallacy to suggest it starts with context. Cognition - the process of thought - starts with neither data nor context.

It starts with behavior. Reality ‘behaves.’ Biology abstracts behavior into thought. Then we behave.

Biology expresses meaning as behavior. Behavior begets behavior. Experience starts and ends with behavior. In between, we process.

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Reader Comments (2)

I've missed you...good to see you back with another delightful post to think about...hope you'll be back on twitter too!

June 29, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterGianna

Thanks for the kind words, Gianna. I am back around :)

June 29, 2010 | Registered CommenterCole Bitting

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