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The narrator in the essays is fictional. Any resemblance to the author is caused by lack of creativity.

Stuck?

What is stuck?

We all know, yet the answer is illusive. It can be an unfinished item on a ToDo list, a postponed decision for no apparent reason, an inappropriate reaction to a momentary thought, or the abrupt interruption of feelings of incompetence, unworthiness or foolishness. It often is far worse.

Move!

Stuck? Move!

What is Move!? It is innate skill. It is how: Experience modifies beliefs created by old experience. It quiets distress, elaborates our values and develops valuable intuitions about ourselves and the world around.

It happens continuously without effort or conscious thought. We can improve our skills and give conscious direction to our motion.

"But I Can't"

Stuck? Move! “But I Can’t”

When we can’t, we are stuck in an unchanging experience. Because it never changes, it proves a narrow truth. We experience these narrow truths as limiting beliefs. How do I set unchanging experiences in motion and dispel limiting beliefs? Move!

Furies! - The Struggle For Growth

Furies! The Struggle for Growth answers three major questions:

Why do some memories torment us?
Why do they persist?
Can personal growth transform them?

Furies! deepens our intuitions about person growth. We will feel strengthening courage and a clearer understanding of our core values.

Personal growth creates who we are - the self we might be proud of, have respect for and feel uplifted by. As we confront our own Furies, we deepen our relationship with the self we have grown to be.

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Sunday
Nov012009

The Last 30%


When I write, the last 30% takes twice as long as the first 70%. I plan for this circumstance, but its quality defies planning. I will confess to a life-long “more-better” affliction.

When I published the first part of my Furies essay, the whole essay was complete. It was long (over 4,000 words), so I chose to publish it in three parts.

The third piece is on the neuroscience of sense-making. I knew it was perfunctory, but in the context of 4,000 words, it was OK.

I forgot it would be the last 30%. Once it was separate, oops.

This section has now become its own essay. Should be out soon, at least the first 70%. Grin.

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Reader Comments (2)

Perfection is a sin, isn't it? Oh! the pleasure of relaxing into our very imperfect nature, not expecting too much, enjoying instead the pleasure of sharing through the words . . .

Deep bow,

Marguerite

November 9, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterMarguerite Manteau-Rao

Thanks for the comment :)

I recognize myself in "perfection is a sin." I will also testify that I savored many moments of triumph as I creatively develop and embellish the feelings and thoughts that are expressed in my writing.

My latest Essay - Clean Up, Feel Better - is what Furies, Part 3 became. The transformation was an awesome experience. I enjoyed my very imperfect nature.

November 9, 2009 | Registered CommenterCole Bitting

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